A breakup or divorce sucks no matter how you try and spin it. It could be an unexpected breakup that you didn’t see coming or a looong drawn out mess that’s like a nasty flu that just lingers on. You’re torn because you ask yourself “how could I’ve been so dumb and not see this coming.” You may still love that person that just broke your heart, but you certainly don’t have to like them! It’s okay to acknowledge your detest towards he/she and even call your best friend and vom