Some of us are looking for the “right” relationship. The perfect match. The person who checks all the boxes. This person who, by all logic and reason, should be The One. Perfect Marriage Material. Some of us also strive to be that perfect match for someone else. We have careers, interests, physical health, and our financial house is in order. We see our therapists to hash out any resentments and iron out any childhood issues. So, when we find someone that is “perfect”, why is

I recently read that a lawyer needs to be honest but does not need to be truthful. What does that mean? Once upon a time, there was a man who had relations with an intern that was of a sexual nature. When asked about it under oath, he famously said, “I did not have sexual relations with that woman.” Was he being honest? Well, yes. Although “sexual relations” can mean any sexual behavior, it is commonly meant as sexual intercourse. Was he being truthful? No. Being truthful mea